I happened to be afraid that when my partner developed feelings for somebody else, their emotions in my situation would diminish.

I happened to be afraid that when my partner developed feelings for somebody else, their emotions in my situation would diminish.

But love and intimacy aren’t finite resources.

But love and intimacy aren’t finite resources. Kind of like just how having a child that is secondn’t cause you to love the very first one any less. In reality, lots of people in polyamorous relationships — including myself — realize that being with another person only makes you appreciate your lover much more.

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